Back At Ya’ New Jersey

Posted September 21, 2021 – Narrated by Carmen
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The LIB Eastern Seaboard Tour ended with our first-ever stop in Delaware and our second visit to New Jersey. In 2019, we only explored a few blocks of Jersey City, in our campground across the Hudson from Manhattan.

So, even though we felt Summer 2021 was our first real visit to New Jersey, this was technically our second. We were relieved to see for ourselves that South Jersey is nothing like Jersey City, where a turtle’s safe crossing on I-78 would require National Guard assistance.

We arrived in Delaware in late Spring with four weeks remaining before we had to turn west.

Thus began our long good-bye to the Atlantic ocean – the beaches, breweries, the fresh seafood. After three weeks of farewelling The Eastern Seaboard, it seemed like way too much work to hitch up. How could we leave all this?

By early-birding the most popular shorelines from Florida to New Jersey – entering each town in pre-season while the locals are rolling up sleeves, preparing for the floodgates to open – we dodged crowds, enjoyed low traffic conditions, and stayed healthy. We also experienced well-groomed beaches and spit-polished historic resort towns.

It’s like being the first in line for Disneyland. Shoulder season has always been our good-luck charm and it paid off beautifully this year. Even with the unusual cold, windy and rainy winter conditions in North Florida, we would repeat this strategy.

Inconsistent weather only presented mild challenges.

From Pensacola to Saint Augustine, Jekyll Island, Charleston, Okracoke, Assateague, Delaware and New Jersey – the weather was comparable: Sublime sunny beach days dovetailed with cold, blustery wet days. The old rule, “If you don’t like the weather, wait a minute and it will change,” applied throughout our northward migration up the coast.

Avoiding heavy crowds, traffic, and hurricane evacuations made sense because as retired people we don’t have to do that anymore. Sure, some of the tourist shops, ice-cream parlors and kiddie rides are not open until after Memorial Day, but the best restaurants with outdoor dining welcome guests year-round. So, waits and reservations were not necessary. Even in Cape May we were seated immediately at the best outdoor tables during peak dining hours.

Delaware Seashore State Park

We stayed two places in Delaware. Our first ten days were at Delaware Seashore State Park.

And, thanks to the excellent recommendation of some friendly campers we met at Assateague, Jim snagged a last minute site at beautiful Cape Henlopen State Park near Rehoboth Beach where we enjoyed a four-day stay.

We love State parks. They usually boast larger sites and feature developed bike trails into town, and many state parks support surprisingly good restaurants on the grounds.

Because state parks have an interest in local business, we can ride our Dolphin eBikes or take an evening stroll to outdoor eateries specializing in fresh local cuisine. Often, the benefits of camping in state parks is substantial. There’s no need to stock up on provisions, and we have more time to play. All good!

Delaware Seashore is only 35 miles from Assateague Island beside the spectacular Indian River Inlet Bridge in the lovely town of Bethany Beach. There we spent quiet days walking along the seashore …

watching fishermen …

and taking in the beautiful bridge view at night.

Many fine restaurants are nearby and we always found what we craved at Matt’s Fish Camp, about a mile from the park.

The giant onion rings at Matt’s served as a motivator to get moving. On Mother’s Day, I paddled the bay and observed seabirds as they tended to their nests.

Cape Henlopen State Park

Then, we moved about ten miles north to Cape Henlopen State Park in the LewesRehoboth Beach area.

Some highlights in Lewes and Rehoboth included bike trails, the cool boardwalk

the towers

historic sites …

outlet stores …

and the local beer, roasted coffee, and outstanding eats.

Thank you, Delaware!

New Jersey

We could have taken the two-hour Cape May-Lewes Ferry at a cost of $80. But after four weeks of The Beast just sitting around serving as our garage, we decided to take the 151 mile scenic drive to …

Cape May, New Jersey.

Cape May, America’s original seaside resort, has many first-class RV parks and campgrounds. With a goal to stay in every Airstream park in North America, we reserved ahead for the tranquil and botanically bodacious Jersey Shore Haven Land Yacht Harbor for a whopping seventeen-day stay.

The lay-back vibe caught us off-guard. We had planned to break into our summer reading list in South Jersey, but this …

this felt like Hawaii. Flowery shaded streets and warm sandy beaches …

spectacular kayaking …

perfectly (windows open) cool nights; fragrant and dewy lilac mornings; balmy afternoons; and the occasional thunder shower with tree frog serenades.

These liquid sunshine conditions severely lowered our nap-resistance. Reading could wait. Yeah, we’ll read next summer. Promise … snore.

We’re not nappers. We might take five or six naps a year and wake up feeling groggy and remorseful and swear off napping forever.

But in Cape May our powers of resistance met their match.

Maybe the long sunlight hours caught up with us. It was probably just a bout of spring-fever – nature’s environmental plan to allow the animals to bear their young with less human interference. Or, could South Jersey be some kind of alien-induced siesta vortex.

Anyway, our serotonin levels succumbed.

Cape May, listed in the national registry of historic places, is the oldest beach resort in America. Since 1816, this town has served as a beacon of rest for hard-working patriots. That makes relaxing here a kind of public service, right?

So we considered it our duty to give in to the free open chair snooze …

and explored the health benefits of the afternoon stroll with a power nap chaser.

With longer daylight hours, we still had plenty of time to enjoy the bike trails …

and breweries …

and restaurants …

and to gorge our eyes on the shameless display of Cape May Victorians.

Cape May made a festive finish line for the LIB Atlantic Coast Tour Extravaganza.

We love all types of architecture, but we reserve a soft spot for Victorians, and Cape May knows how to strut those vintage beauties. We spent hours strolling block after block researching houses, history, peering through the gingerbread tunnels …

and watching the delicate work of house elevations along the ocean front to mitigate flooding from sea-level rise.

The spruced up porches, furnished to the last detail for optimal napping, all seemed to say, “Me. Pick me.”

“Pick a favorite,” I said to Jim.

“That’s a tough one,” he responded.

“Fair enough,” I yawned. “Let’s go home and sleep on it.”

“Deal.”

If you want to see the exact route we travel, click here.

*photos in this post (unless otherwise noted) were taken and copyrighted by Living In Beauty.


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Carl Carlson
Carl Carlson
4 years ago

Fabulous travelogue as always! Happy and safe tra6!

Carol Hubbard
4 years ago

My husband, Ken, and I are buying an AS Classic and “beast-like” truck next summer, selling our home, and hitting the road as digital nomads (official retirement in 2026). We really enjoy your blogs as we head toward a radical downsizing and a new life stage as Airstreamers!

Kathy Pesca Harasta
Kathy Pesca Harasta
4 years ago

I’m delighted that you enjoyed Cape May, which holds a special place in my heart. Pre-pandemic and prior to owning an RV, I rented a house in North Cape for a week each summer. It was the only time each year that my extended family would be able to spend more than a weekend together. What great memories I have!

Kathy Pesca Harasta
Kathy Pesca Harasta
4 years ago

We actually rented a house in North Cape May on the Delaware Bay. The rental prices are more reasonable and we had the best of both worlds…10 minute drive to Cape May and also all the joys of a beautiful beach with lots of walking, swimming, and biking and a bit of paddling and stand up paddle board (very dependent on the currents, wind and jellyfish). Using a SUP where there were small waves plus jellyfish surrounding me added a new dimension . Ha! I paddled very quickly back to shore!

Marcia Nash Ludden
Marcia Nash Ludden
4 years ago

Wow! What a beautiful trip. We may have to look into those ebikes!

Marcia Nash Ludden
Marcia Nash Ludden
4 years ago

Thanks! That would be a great. Yes, Iowa-Nebraska, etc. have great Rails to Trails areas. You’ll not run out of great trails here either. Have fun exploring!

Michele Warholic Moslak
Michele Warholic Moslak
4 years ago

We love Cape Henlopen. Visited twice this summer and hoping one more time before too cold.

Andy Oliva
Andy Oliva
4 years ago

Carmen & Jim, you guys are livin the life. Be safe and be safe and keep having fun. Andy Oliva

Ann B. DeChant
Ann B. DeChant
4 years ago

Beautiful journey!

Miriam D. Garrett
Miriam D. Garrett
4 years ago

Fabulous! Thanks for sharing

Kelly
Kelly
4 years ago

I love all the things you do! I live in Ohio and want a beautiful retirement with an airstream and a wonderful active life just like yours! Your links are so helpful to me! I am 42, raising two boys (10,12 )and still a long way off, but your blog is making me find ways to retire early! Our family, we are tent campers now, and LOVE it. I sleep best in a tent. But I already know at retirement, I long for longer times to camp, more distance, refrigeration! We just love to ski-XC or downhill—I need an airstream that can somehow winter camp. Is this a thing? Any advice?

Anne Terrell
Anne Terrell
4 years ago

A five month crawl, I love that!

Liesbet @ Roaming About

So much pleasure packed in one post – food, drink, activities, beaches. colors, and … naps. 🙂 I had no idea Cape May was this pretty and colorful. You make every destination look incredible in your blog posts; your photography is stunning. Now I want to go to the Jersey and Delaware shores! 🙂

Dean
Dean
4 years ago

Wow, another beautiful destination I didn’t know about. Thanks for taking us along.

Nana Paris
Nana Paris
4 years ago

Thank you for sharing this!

Christina Mcmillan
Christina Mcmillan
4 years ago

Shoulder season is the best season! This has made me excited to revisit the Northeast next year!

Barbara Taylor
Barbara Taylor
4 years ago

One of the more relaxing trips. Thanks for having me along on this journey.

chapter3travels
4 years ago

So much good stuff all wrapped up in one post! New Jersey gets such a bad rap because what most people see from the highway are the cruddy parts, but Cape May really is beautiful. We haven’t visited ourselves, but it’s always been on our list. The Victorians are lovely and you highlighted the town and beach so well. The Delaware shore, too, is so much fun. All the food and breweries one could possibly desire. Love it! Glad you did too!

David Titley
4 years ago

Wonderful blog! Will have to add NJ/DE to ‘the list’! Will you be at the Balloon Fiesta? We leave Grand Teton this Sunday heading for ABQ!

Brenda Myers
Brenda Myers
4 years ago

As always, enjoyed the write-up!

Lori Bittner
Lori Bittner
4 years ago

Thanks for sharing. I love the area. I love the beach. Great places to camp. I am from Pennsylvania so it is not too far us.

Kate Veness-Meehan
Kate Veness-Meehan
4 years ago

Thank you for this great tour!

Rosemarie Heine
Rosemarie Heine
4 years ago

Another fabulous overview. Your writing makes me feel like I am there with y’all.

Kathy Spillar
Kathy Spillar
4 years ago

Thank you for sharing this With us! Such a beautiful journey & I enjoyed the visit

LisaAnne Foglia
LisaAnne Foglia
4 years ago

I wish I knew you were coming to NJ! I’m not far up the parkway from Cape May. You hit all the great spots!

Margie Pabon
Margie Pabon
4 years ago

Oh, how I love COLOR!! Thank you our Friends for all the beautiful pictures! I may be a little jealous of this post!❤ We love you both and would love to meet up in San Diego(ish) when you’re coming home!! Hugs and traveling-mercy prayers!!❤

Steve Jones
Steve Jones
4 years ago

Enjoyed this post. Being from the DC area, Sue and I have spent quite a bit of time at these shore locations, dating back to even before we were married. Lovely area. Did you check out the remains of the WWII pillbox fortifications at Cape Henlopen? A long long time ago Sue and I used to be members of a group beach house at Dewey Beach which is in-between Bethany and Rehoboth. An early anniversary for us was spent at a B&B in Cape May. Anyway, had a question. In one of your pictures it looks like Pico is in some sort of pet carrier while you are at a restaurant. Do you mind sharing what product this is? I’m wondering if this will work for our doggie. We are able to take her to places that have outdoor seating sometimes, but wondering if your approach with a carrier works better. Happy Birthday to Jim by the way!

Steve Jones
Steve Jones
4 years ago

Thanks! Keep your eye out for Pat and Babs Cahalan at the balloon fest. You may have met them at Alumapalooza as well.

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